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Gallop, Spark, Repeat: A Whimsical Tour of the Year of the Fire Horse

Modern Fertility Law · February 17, 2026 ·

Every so often, the Chinese zodiac tosses glitter on the cosmic dance floor and shouts, “Everybody run.” That year is the Year of the Fire Horse—a time when destiny laces up its sneakers, ambition whinnies loudly, and babies are born with metaphorical sparks flying from their heels.

Modern Fertility Law celebrates the Year of the Fire Horse

The Horse, in zodiac lore, is already a creature of motion: freedom-loving, sociable, and allergic to fences of all kinds. Add Fire, the most dramatic of the Five Elements, and suddenly you’ve got a personality cocktail that fizzes, crackles, and occasionally explodes into spontaneous adventure. Fire Horse energy doesn’t walk into a room—it arrives, trailing confidence, opinions, and a vague sense that something interesting is about to happen.

Babies born in the Year of the Fire Horse are often said to come pre-installed with boldness. These are the toddlers who insist on tying their own shoes before they can pronounce “shoelace,” the kids who raise their hands even when they don’t know the answer (especially when they don’t know the answer), and the adults who say “yes” first and figure out the details mid-gallop. Independence isn’t learned—it’s their native tongue.

Creativity is another hallmark. Fire Horse children are idea-generators with jet engines. They draw stories instead of pictures, invent games no one else fully understands, and have a knack for seeing shortcuts where others see walls. Their minds move fast, sometimes faster than their surroundings can comfortably handle, which makes them thrilling companions and mildly exhausting dinner guests.

Emotionally, Fire Horses burn hot and honest. They feel things deeply, express them openly, and have little patience for pretense. If they love you, you’ll know. If they’re bored, you’ll definitely know. This intensity can look like stubbornness from the outside, but it’s more accurately a fierce commitment to authenticity. Fire Horses would rather blaze brightly than dim themselves to fit the room.

Leadership often follows them like a loyal shadow. Not always the clipboard-and-agenda kind—more the “everyone somehow started following them” variety. They inspire through momentum, courage, and the contagious belief that life is meant to be lived at full speed.

Of course, every flame needs tending. Fire Horse energy can scorch if unchecked, leading to impatience, restlessness, or a tendency to bolt when things get slow or complicated. But with room to roam, meaningful challenges, and the freedom to choose their own path, Fire Horse souls don’t just live life—they ignite it.

In the end, being born in the Year of the Fire Horse is a bit like arriving in the world with a built-in drumroll. These are the people who remind the rest of us to run faster, dream louder, and never forget that sometimes, the best direction is straight ahead, mane flying, sparks blazing. 🐎🔥

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Modern Fertility Law · February 16, 2026 ·

Modern Fertility Law - licensed in the state of Washington

Modern Fertility Law is licensed in the state of Washington, helping clients build families in the Pacific Northwest.

Enforceable Gestational Carrier Agreements and Pre-Birth Orders in Washington: A Detailed Examination of RCW 26.26A

Modern Fertility Law · February 9, 2026 ·

In recent years, Washington has updated its parentage laws to modernize and clarify how families are formed through assisted reproduction and surrogacy. Central to this effort is RCW 26.26A, the state’s Uniform Parentage Act (UPA), which explicitly authorizes enforceable gestational carrier agreements and permits judicial parentage orders, including pre-birth orders, under defined legal conditions. This statutory framework was enacted to provide predictability for intended parents, gestational carriers, and children alike, ensuring legal parentage can be determined efficiently and fairly in surrogacy arrangements.

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1. Background: The Uniform Parentage Act and Surrogacy Law Reform

Before the adoption of RCW 26.26A in 2019, Washington lacked a clear statutory scheme governing surrogacy and the determination of parentage in assisted reproduction cases. The prior law, RCW 26.26, provided limited guidance around paternity and parenthood generally but did not comprehensively address modern reproductive technologies or gestational carrier arrangements.

The Uniform Parentage Act (Chapter 26.26A RCW), effective January 1, 2019, significantly expanded and clarified parentage law. Among its many sections, RCW 26.26A.700-785 provides a detailed regime governing surrogacy agreements, including gestational surrogacy, enabling those agreements to be enforceable contracts when specific statutory requirements are met. The statute also sets forth mechanisms for establishing legal parentage through pre-birth and post-birth orders in court.

2. Defining Gestational Surrogacy and the Statutory Framework

Under RCW 26.26A, a surrogacy agreement is broadly defined as a contract in which a person agrees to become pregnant and deliver a child for another person or couple, often referred to as the intended parents. The statute distinguishes gestational surrogacy from genetic (traditional) surrogacy: in gestational surrogacy, the surrogate carries an embryo with no genetic link to her; in genetic surrogacy, the surrogate is also the genetic contributor. Certain provisions of RCW 26.26A explicitly govern these separate arrangements.

Gestational surrogacy is the most common model used in modern assisted reproduction because it clearly separates biological and legal parentage—issues that the statute directly addresses by placing intended parents on firm legal footing.

3. Enforceability of Gestational Carrier Agreements

A. Statutory Recognition of Enforceability

One of the core components of RCW 26.26A is its recognition that gestational carrier agreements can be enforceable if they comply with specified statutory requirements. RCW 26.26A.755 states in clear terms:

“A gestational surrogacy agreement that complies with RCW 26.26A.705, 26.26A.710, and 26.26A.715 is enforceable.”

This provision signals a significant shift from older approaches that treated such agreements as unenforceable or subject to judicial skepticism. Under the current law, enforceability is tied not to general contract principles but to compliance with statutory preconditions ensuring fairness, voluntariness, and protection of all parties’ rights.

B. Statutory Requirements for Enforceability

To qualify for statutory enforceability, a gestational carrier agreement must meet all of the following:

  1. Eligibility under RCW 26.26A.705 (including minimum age and ability to consent).
  2. Procedural requirements under RCW 26.26A.710 (timing and formal execution procedures).
  3. Content standards under RCW 26.26A.715 (substantive clause requirements). 

These requirements are designed to uphold both parties’ autonomy and the child’s welfare.

RCW 26.26A.705 & RCW 26.26A.710

Although relatively technical, these sections ensure that all parties:

  • are of legal age and capacity,
  • enter into the agreement voluntarily and with full understanding,
  • execute the agreement before any medical procedures,
  • have independent legal counsel, and
  • have fully disclosed and documented the terms. 

For example, the statute requires independent legal representation for the surrogate and intended parents, with each counsel identified in the agreement, and that the surrogate be advised of her rights and responsibilities.

RCW 26.26A.715: Content Requirements

RCW 26.26A.715 specifies substantive elements that must be included in a valid surrogacy contract. These include:

  • an agreement by the surrogate to undergo assisted reproduction procedures,
  • provisions about the surrogate’s and intended parents’ understanding that parentage will not vest in the surrogate,
  • detailed disclosures about medical, financial, and insurance arrangements,
  • confirmation that the surrogate retains control over her health decisions during pregnancy, and
  • information about rights to terminate the agreement. 

This section is fundamental: an agreement that fails these content requirements is not statutorily enforceable, though courts may still adjudicate rights consistent with the parties’ intent.

C. Remedies and Limits on Enforcement

If an enforceable gestational carrier agreement is breached, the statute allows traditional remedies at law or equity, such as damages, except in certain situations. For instance, specific performance is generally not available for breaches relating to the surrogate’s bodily autonomy. However, if a court has determined parentage and prevented intended parents from exercising parental rights at birth due to a breach, specific performance may be available in that narrow context.

4. Parentage: Operation of Law and Order of Parentage

A. Parentage by Operation of Law

RCW 26.26A.740 addresses parentage in gestational surrogacy cases. It provides that:

“On birth of a child conceived by assisted reproduction under a gestational surrogacy agreement, each intended parent is, by operation of law, a parent of the child…”

This means that intended parents become legal parents at birth without any additional adoption or administrative steps if the gestational surrogacy agreement is compliant. Likewise, the surrogate and her spouse or former spouse are not considered parents, reinforcing that legal parentage shifts to the intended parents at birth.

There are exceptions, particularly if the surrogate is genetically related to the child, in which case genetic testing is ordered, and parentage is determined under the standard parentage provisions.

B. Special Rules for Deceased Intended Parents

RCW 26.26A.745 ensures that an intended parent who dies after gamete or embryo transfer is still treated as a parent unless the agreement explicitly provides otherwise, under certain timing conditions. This protects intended parents’ rights and families from unintended consequences of death during the reproductive process.

5. Pre-Birth Orders: Early Determination of Parentage

One of the most practical innovations in Washington’s law is the availability of pre-birth parentage orders for gestational surrogacy.

A. Statutory Authority for Pre-Birth Orders

RCW 26.26A.750 permits a party to a gestational surrogacy agreement to initiate a superior court proceeding before, on, or after birth to obtain an order declaring that each intended parent is a parent of the child. The court may include:

  • Vesting parental rights and duties in intended parents immediately at birth,
  • Declaring the surrogate is not a parent,
  • Ordering the state registrar of vital statistics to list the intended parents on the birth record, and
  • Protecting the privacy of the child and parties, among other relief. 

Importantly, the court can issue this order before birth, though enforcement is stayed until after birth. This allows intended parents to secure legal parentage in advance of delivery, reducing uncertainty and administrative challenges at the hospital and afterward.

B. Practical Significance of Pre-Birth Orders

Pre-birth orders are particularly valuable because they:

  • Provide certainty that intended parents will be recognized at birth,
  • Allow intended parents to be listed on the child’s birth certificate without a separate post-birth parentage proceeding,
  • Avoid delays or disputes at hospitals or with government agencies, and
  • Are available regardless of marital status, sexual orientation, or whether one or both intended parents have a genetic link to the child. 

Washington’s law is considered surrogacy-friendly, emphasizing inclusion of diverse family types under its pre-birth order provisions.

C. Distinction From Genetic Surrogacy Parentage Orders

Notably, pre-birth orders are not routinely available in genetic (traditional) surrogacy agreements. Genetic surrogate agreements require validation by the court before assisted reproduction, and post-birth proceedings are used instead.

6. Administrative and Practical Considerations

A. Birth Records and Registrar Directives

Under RCW 26.26A.750, a superior court order can direct the state registrar of vital statistics to list the intended parents on the birth certificate. This avoids the administrative hurdle some states impose when intended parents are not recognized on initial birth records.

B. Privacy and Court Records

The statute also allows courts to limit inspection of records to protect the privacy interests of the child and parties, a feature that acknowledges the sensitive nature of assisted reproduction and surrogacy arrangements.

C. Application and Jurisdiction

Court proceedings under RCW 26.26A occur in Washington’s superior courts, which have exclusive jurisdiction over parentage actions. The law applies regardless of the child’s birth location if the court has proper jurisdiction, anchoring the state law’s reach beyond strict geographic limits.

7. Conclusion

Washington’s Uniform Parentage Act (RCW 26.26A) provides a robust legal framework for the use of gestational carrier agreements and pre-birth parentage orders, reflecting modern family building realities. By specifying enforceability standards for gestational surrogacy contracts and allowing intended parents to obtain pre-birth judicial recognition of their parental status, the statute promotes legal certainty, inclusivity, and child welfare.

The statutory scheme requires careful adherence to requirements governing the execution, content, and enforcement of agreements and outlines clear judicial procedures for recognizing intended parents. These elements work together to ensure that surrogacy arrangements are not only legally enforceable but that the resulting parent-child relationships are secure and recognized both socially and legally at the earliest possible stage.

For intended parents, surrogates, and practitioners, RCW 26.26A represents a thoughtful and comprehensive approach to integrating assisted reproduction into the state’s parentage law—balancing contractual enforceability with protections for all involved.

Modern Fertility Law has made this content available to the general public for informational purposes only. The information on this site is not intended to convey legal opinions or legal advice. For further information on medical issues, please consult the American Society for Reproductive Medicine.

#MoreThan

Modern Fertility Law · February 6, 2026 ·

RESOLVE: The National Infertility Association’s “#MoreThan” campaign for National Infertility Awareness Week (April 19–25, 2026) highlights that people facing infertility are more than their diagnosis, celebrating their diverse paths, identities, and, in some cases, the emotional toll of navigating infertility. This initiative emphasizes the need for increased support, education, and representation for those dealing with the physical and emotional challenges of infertility.

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Beyond Hope: The Emotional Journey of Intended Parents Before Choosing Surrogacy

Modern Fertility Law · February 5, 2026 ·

For many intended parents, the decision to pursue surrogacy does not come lightly. It is often the culmination of years—sometimes decades—of emotional upheaval, uncertainty, hope, and loss. By the time surrogacy is considered, most prospective parents have already walked a long, difficult path defined by infertility diagnoses, repeated miscarriages, and unsuccessful IVF attempts.

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The Invisible Labor of Hope and Disappointment

Infertility is frequently described medically as the inability to conceive after one year of unprotected intercourse, or six months for women over 35. Yet for the individuals experiencing it, infertility is not merely a clinical condition—it is an ongoing struggle with uncertainty. The average couple may rarely encounter difficulty when trying to conceive. But for those facing infertility, each month brings a cycle of anticipation followed by disappointment. Conception becomes less about intimacy and more about timing, testing, and calendars. The emotional stress builds incrementally, hidden beneath the surface of everyday conversations and social interactions. Friends and family, often uninformed about the psychological weight of infertility, may offer platitudes such as “just relax” or “it will happen when it’s meant to.” These comments, though well-intentioned, can intensify feelings of isolation. Intended parents may internalize the struggle, perceiving themselves as failing at something that others accomplish effortlessly.

Choosing Surrogacy

By the time surrogacy emerges as a possibility, many couples have already faced some combination of:

  • Multiple seasons of trying to conceive without success.
  • One or more miscarriages with lasting emotional effects.
  • Several rounds of IVF, each with its own hopes and setbacks.
  • Financial strain from costly treatments that are often not fully covered by insurance.
  • Emotional fatigue—not just individual but relational.

At this stage, surrogacy is not about abandoning hope. Rather, it is an alternative hope—a reimagined path toward parenthood that acknowledges biological, physical, or medical limitations while still embracing the core desire to have a child. Surrogacy expands the definition of parenthood. It invites a collaborative model where multiple individuals—intended parents, surrogate, medical teams—participate in creating and welcoming new life. For many, this shared experience enriches the meaning of family. Where infertility and miscarriage often leave couples feeling powerless, surrogacy offers a renewed sense of agency. Surrogacy contracts, medical planning, and intentional choice empower intended parents to move forward with clarity rather than constantly waiting. Each step toward surrogacy—research, choosing an agency or clinic, matching with a surrogate, entering legal agreements—signals progress. After seasons of waiting, there is momentum.  Even though fear of loss may remain, there is forward motion, and for many, that movement is healing.

The road to surrogacy is rarely linear. Surrogacy, then, is both a continuation and a transformation of hope. Recognizing the emotional complexity behind the decision to pursue surrogacy fosters empathy, deepens support, and honors the profound emotional work that precedes every new beginning.

Modern Fertility Law has made this content available to the general public for informational purposes only. The information on this site is not intended to convey legal opinions or legal advice. For further information on medical issues, please consult the American Society for Reproductive Medicine.

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